This one is for all you mothers out there! Thank you!
My husband and I were at dinner last evening with several other coworkers of my husbands, celebrating a retirement. There were four children in our party of about 15, ranging from age of three months to pre-teen. The restaurant was quite crowded and noisy, the children were pretty well behaved by most peoples standards. Directly behind me sat two women about 30ish. While holding my 18 month old son, whom my husband and I anguished to have long before he arrived, I overheard their conversation which went something like this..."Every time I think I want to have a baby I just invite my nieces and nephews over and that immediately changes my mind! Sometimes I do think I would like to shop for and dress a baby or even decorate a nursery, but I don't think I really want the hassle."
Reality check ladies!
You don't go through nine months of pregnancy and hours and hours of labor so you can go shopping for something cute!
You have children because you want to grow these cute little things to be responsible caring adults. You become parents because, as my husband would say, to be "nurturing engineers." Parenthood is not about you! It is a hassle. There are may days that I would give anything for five minutes alone in the bathroom. So to those two lovely women in the restaurant last evening... YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE CHILDREN! Leave it to those of us that really want it, and really enjoy it!